Sometimes we always felt this lack of self from others, which resulted in feeling less confident and excessive embarrassment or shyness. If this nature is allowed to continue in us, it will be very dangerous for the future of our social life. We will be difficult to get along, not having many friends, and many other losses.
Therefore, how to overcome or even eliminate shyness and a lack of confidence. Here are the tips:
## Know what makes you feel inferior ##
Is it because many faults? or not being able to do what others can do? Do not punish yourself with should be the same as anyone else, just be yourself and unearth the potential that resides within you and develop. I think it will be the best way to improve your sense of self confidence. Not necessary embarrassment or even inferiority.
## Who are the people who make you embarrassed ##
Is she someone who is more wealthy than you? or people who are smarter than you are? or the most popular campus environment or school? Whoever she is, she's still a human being who has shortcomings and strengths, as well as you are sure of yourself you have something to be proud of, so you don't need to have a sense of shame.
## Stop thinking about your shortcomings ##
Accept yourself you are, do not keep thinking about shortcomings, this will only aggravate the situation that makes you worse off with the shortcomings, make your shortage became a your surplus. Nick Vujicic is a good example in this regard. Life without arms and legs do not mean that the world has ended. No means are not able to achieve success. Deficiency is not an obstacle. But, it became a big motivation to succeed. That is what Nick Vujicic (26 years), in his life. Her life was always full of smiles and optimism. Success was easily achieved. Nick could be a model that the shortage could be turned into a surplus. Now, Nick Vujicic is a motivational / international speaker glorious. He has traveled more than 24 countries on four continents, to motivate more than 2 million people-especially young people. Many times, he was interviewed by a television station with an international reach, such as ABC (on March 28, 2008). Its products are famous motivational DVD "Life's Greater Purpose", "No Arms, No Legs, No Worries", and the films "The Butterfly Circus."
## Expand your social ##
Mix with people who have high confidence. Learn how they live their daily lives. The way they meet new people, the way they treat others, how they are addressing a problem, deal with various situations, etc. .. Learn from them and practice with yourself. But, remember keep your own self so fully.
## Start hanging out with someone new ##
For those who are not shy mix with new people is not difficult. But, for which the shy it would be very difficult, and on average they are very difficult to start a conversation first. So began to ask to new people.
## Begin to notice your appearance ##
From now watch your appearance when going out of the house. This will increase your confidence. With a maximum display, you will not be ashamed to meet other people. Because, you've performed all out, and displaying the best.
## Be calm in every situation ##
The main mistake a shy are could not self control. Especially when in a distressed situation and foreign. Nervous, anxious, embarrassed, cold sweats is one indication of people who are on pressure. Actually this can be overcome by taking a deep breath in and exhale slowly, this will make us relax and calm. Remove your negative imagination of what you face, consider all fine. Dismiss the thought that people are watching you and thinking negatively about you. In fact, all the way mediocre unlike what you think. All the negative things you only in your imagination only.
## Try something new ##
The new things open your insight and views about life and living. That nothing is impossible. When people can do about something why we are not able to. That is, the limitations are the wrong way of thinking.
"Don't consider yourself low in front of others, precisely hence you will really considered low among them"
Therefore, how to overcome or even eliminate shyness and a lack of confidence. Here are the tips:
## Know what makes you feel inferior ##
Is it because many faults? or not being able to do what others can do? Do not punish yourself with should be the same as anyone else, just be yourself and unearth the potential that resides within you and develop. I think it will be the best way to improve your sense of self confidence. Not necessary embarrassment or even inferiority.
## Who are the people who make you embarrassed ##
Is she someone who is more wealthy than you? or people who are smarter than you are? or the most popular campus environment or school? Whoever she is, she's still a human being who has shortcomings and strengths, as well as you are sure of yourself you have something to be proud of, so you don't need to have a sense of shame.
## Stop thinking about your shortcomings ##
Accept yourself you are, do not keep thinking about shortcomings, this will only aggravate the situation that makes you worse off with the shortcomings, make your shortage became a your surplus. Nick Vujicic is a good example in this regard. Life without arms and legs do not mean that the world has ended. No means are not able to achieve success. Deficiency is not an obstacle. But, it became a big motivation to succeed. That is what Nick Vujicic (26 years), in his life. Her life was always full of smiles and optimism. Success was easily achieved. Nick could be a model that the shortage could be turned into a surplus. Now, Nick Vujicic is a motivational / international speaker glorious. He has traveled more than 24 countries on four continents, to motivate more than 2 million people-especially young people. Many times, he was interviewed by a television station with an international reach, such as ABC (on March 28, 2008). Its products are famous motivational DVD "Life's Greater Purpose", "No Arms, No Legs, No Worries", and the films "The Butterfly Circus."
## Expand your social ##
Mix with people who have high confidence. Learn how they live their daily lives. The way they meet new people, the way they treat others, how they are addressing a problem, deal with various situations, etc. .. Learn from them and practice with yourself. But, remember keep your own self so fully.
## Start hanging out with someone new ##
For those who are not shy mix with new people is not difficult. But, for which the shy it would be very difficult, and on average they are very difficult to start a conversation first. So began to ask to new people.
## Begin to notice your appearance ##
From now watch your appearance when going out of the house. This will increase your confidence. With a maximum display, you will not be ashamed to meet other people. Because, you've performed all out, and displaying the best.
## Be calm in every situation ##
The main mistake a shy are could not self control. Especially when in a distressed situation and foreign. Nervous, anxious, embarrassed, cold sweats is one indication of people who are on pressure. Actually this can be overcome by taking a deep breath in and exhale slowly, this will make us relax and calm. Remove your negative imagination of what you face, consider all fine. Dismiss the thought that people are watching you and thinking negatively about you. In fact, all the way mediocre unlike what you think. All the negative things you only in your imagination only.
## Try something new ##
The new things open your insight and views about life and living. That nothing is impossible. When people can do about something why we are not able to. That is, the limitations are the wrong way of thinking.
"Don't consider yourself low in front of others, precisely hence you will really considered low among them"
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