Maturity person can not be seen from how the amount of age that had they possessed. But more to the mental maturity in thinking and facing things. Not to be a guarantee that older people have a mature attitude, vice versa younger people also not necessarily have childishness.
A person, who is a teenager, may still have the infantile nature of childhood that we can still tolerate. But for someone who has grown up, when still have childishness, it will be very annoying for people who are around him. Because of childishness can hurt brothers, sisters, parents, friends, even of our own boyfriend or girlfriend. If it is so, then that will happen we will be shunned even bullied by them. Don't want, isn't it? you are treated as such. So, the fox should be our childish behavior, to be a person who has a mature soul.
How do we do? Here are tips and tricks:
(V) Try to control emotions, childishness is usually closely related to the emotional. When we didn't like something, then people with childishness will be short-tempered. Also, if someone else gives opinions were deemed negative about us, and then we will quickly offend.
(V) Think straight in the face of something we are uncomfortable, for example, doesn't do anything stupid, like hurting ourselves, slamming doors or slam things. But you need to do is to resist to not react for several seconds, so able to think clearly to do something or to facing something better.
(V) Stop sulking, others will increasingly resentful towards us if we don't stop sulking. Because sulking is the attitude of a small child when asking for something.
(V) Don't obtrude, begin to accept the fact, that not everything that we want should always be done.
(V) Stop being selfish, because of selfish behavior will only lead us away from the people who are around us.
So from now on be someone mature and stay away from childishness. So make your self to be new person more enjoyable and free from childish behavior.
Hopefully useful tips and tricks
Cheers
Tips and Tricks
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