TIPS AND TRICKS
Disciplining children, not as difficult as we imagine, but also not as easy as we thought. Need special tips for children to be disciplined. Here are tips and tricks that you can apply to your child:
Hopefully the tips and tricks effective in disciplining our children.
*Learn to say "NO" firmly but with compassion, dignity, and without the angry tone. Thus, your child knows what they should and should not do. So naturally they comply with the rules that you create.
*If we had set the rules, we must be consistent with our remarks. For example, when we discipline children to brush teeth before bed, we have consistently told them to brush their teeth before they go to sleep. This rule should always be done, not because your child looks sleepy so you relent and let them go straight to bed. This can result in children disparaging remark our commands, so they assume no leniency rules. Your attitude is not consistent, it will destroy the rules and discipline that has been created.
*Give punishment and reward, when your children do what you ask to do it consistently, there is no harm in giving the award to them. But, if your child violates the rules which have been made, don't hesitate to give them a punishment. But, still rules that educate, such as raking leaves or cleaning the bathroom, as much as possible avoids physical punishment.
*Don't negotiate or promising something to the child. For example, "When finished playing, you clean up your toys back, then mommy will give you a present."
Such words should not say, because children would take care of his toys if there is a gift. If no, then he will not fix it. If you really intend to give rewards, then you can do only occasionally, when a child truly has been disciplined, and given at the right time and not because of our promises or demands of children.
*Be a good example for your children. Children are great imitators. So every deed you will become an example for them. Both the good deeds and bad deeds. Things like this are effective for disciplining them.
*When disciplining children, avoid shouting. Because it makes the child becomes so timid and will only make them stupid. We recommend that the emphasis is on tone of voice so that your intention across.
*Not necessarily comply with all wishes. If the desire is a necessity is felt for him, why do not we give it. But if only based on mere desire without liability, should not be obeyed. For example a child wants to buy a picture book, why do not we buy, if it indeed feels he needs to develop their creativity through reading. But if your child, wanted a cereal that was on TV, while in the closet home, there are plenty of similar cereal, we should ignore her desire, because it's just mere wishes.
Hopefully the tips and tricks effective in disciplining our children.
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